Dr. Mom Online

Each day, the kids and I talk about a “big idea” for the day. We talk about some theme or character trait or mindset that we can focus on in an attempt to lift us up from low level stinkin’ thinkin’ and stress. They’re learning that THEY decide the type of people they will be… their circumstances, surroundings and other people do not dictate that.

It’s a work in progress, for sure!! (As it is for many of us grown-ups, too!)

This morning on the way to school, I was sharing the idea with them of  “Letting your greatness shine”. We talked about how God places greatness in each and every one of us… and it’s up to us to let it out. We talked about situations that they might encounter throughout a typical school day, and how they could make a different-than-usual choice in that circumstance… one that would allow their inner greatness to shine through.

It was really a wonderful ride to school this morning. One of those moments that made me feel like there’s still a shred of hope for that elusive Mother-of-the-Year award to find me one of these decades!

Once we were in the school, I was helping my son get situated in his Junior Kindergarten class room. I could tell that his anxiety over mommy departing was once again building up. I simply smiled at him and said, “Remember what’s inside you, OK. You can do this.”

His teacher overheard and asked, “What’s inside you? What’s mommy talking about?”

He quietly responded in a very shy voice, “I have greatness inside me. Today, I’m going to let it shine… even if I’m sad or miss mommy… I’m going to look at the sunshine and remember that MY light is just as bright!”

Awwwww… I just wanted to squeeze that little guy to pieces right then and there! I gave him a quick little kiss and a big hug… then scooted out of there before he could see the tears in mommy’s eyes.

It made my heart SO happy! : )

Tags: attitude, balance, emotional health, healthy thoughts, stress management